Wednesday, August 20, 2014

August 20, 2014 - Alone



Human beings are a social animal, and that means that humans need other humans.  I imagine it began as a protective sort of thing with bands of humans surviving better than loners.  I’m sure it quickly moved into a hunting kind of thing.  Hunting in groups gives a much better chance at taking down game than hunting alone, and that means more food.  Then it moved on to agriculture.  A group of people can certainly plant and tend more crops than a single person, and this gives the group a survival edge.  From there it went to specialized skills.  One person could work much better with stone or leather than another person, while that other person worked much better at, say, food preparation or farming.  So people banned together to share their skills, to protect one another, and to feed their children.

Of course, it goes beyond that.  People need each other.  People need love and affection.  They need conversation.  They need camaraderie.  They need the comfort of knowing that someone else is beside them.  When they don’t get these things for prolonged periods, they often go “funny in the head.”  I’ve seen people like that, and it’s tragic.

An isolated home on the shore in Maine.

Then there are those who live in isolated areas in homes hidden away, such as the one you see in this photo.  Make no mistake:  this person still needs other people for supplies, friendship, etc.  But those needs are met only occasionally and only when necessary, and the rest of the time is spent alone in nature.  Not everyone can live this way.  Many people think they can because they get frustrated with a hectic lifestyle, but when given the opportunity, those same people go insane in an isolated atmosphere such as this. 

Here in Maine we are lucky to have many isolated areas with very few people or none at all.  Here in Maine, if you want, you can have a fabulous and breathtaking view to look at every day and no one with whom to share it.  It takes a different kind of person to live this way.  I am one of these people.  Are you?